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Love and Law School: Finding Balance in the Chaos

Law school has a way of taking over your life. Between long readings, outlines, cold calls, and exams that feel like endurance tests, it can be hard to find time for anything else, especially relationships. Yet, maintaining healthy connections, whether romantic or otherwise, is an important part of staying grounded through the stress and intensity of legal education.

The first step to managing relationships in law school is acknowledging the reality of the journey. Law school isn’t just another academic program, it’s a demanding and emotionally charged experience that tests your time, focus, and patience. Being open about that, both with yourself and your partner, creates space for understanding rather than frustration. Communication becomes the key. When you’re honest about what your weeks look like, how your workload fluctuates, and when you’ll need to hunker down, your relationship can adjust around those challenges instead of being blindsided by them.

While time together may be limited, quality matters more than quantity. A quick coffee between classes, studying side by side, or sharing a quiet meal after a long day can be just as meaningful as a weekend getaway. These small, intentional moments of connection remind you that your relationship still matters, even in the midst of chaos.

It’s also important to protect your own space. Law school is a time of personal growth and self-discovery, and that means giving yourself permission to focus on your goals without guilt. Balancing love and ambition doesn’t mean sacrificing one for the other, it means learning to integrate both. Strong relationships are built on mutual respect and the understanding that each person has their own path to follow.

At the end of the day, remember why you’re in law school in the first place. The hard work, late nights, and missed date nights are temporary, but the discipline, empathy, and resilience you develop will carry you far beyond graduation. A relationship that can adapt to that journey isn’t weakened by the demands of law school, it’s strengthened by them.

But I didn’t major in Political Science…

When I got to law school, I felt like a fish out of water, to say the least. I remember on one of the first days of orientation we were doing the stereotypical first day “ice breakers.” Everyone was going around saying their name, hometown, undergraduate major, and a fun fact. As everyone was introducing themselves, I remember thinking, “I am the only person in here who did not major in political science or legal studies.” I was terrified that I wouldn’t be successful unless I was a political science major. I didn’t know anything about the law, and I didn’t know why I was even here to begin with. What was I doing? I felt like the world’s biggest imposter.

Thankfully, after that large wave of imposter syndrome subsided, it became readily apparent that everyone was starting on the same page. Once classes started up, I realized that everyone else was having the same feelings while trying to adjust to law school. Eventually, I realized that having a degree in psychology was not as much of a hindrance that I thought it would be. In fact, many people told me that my psychology degree would prove to be incredibly helpful in practice.

I didn’t major in political science because I realized I wanted to go to law school a bit later in my undergraduate career. Rather than letting this hold me back, I’ve decided to embrace the fact that I have a background in another subject. In fact, my passion for psychology has helped to shape my law school education. As an associate staff member of the law review, I am required to write a “comment,” which is a proposed solution to a current legal issue. I was able to tailor my comment to something I was actually passionate about (psychology), and I was excited to do legal research! This unique perspective on law school has given me many opportunities to grow and share my passion with others.

Here at Widener Law Commonwealth, I’ve met so many people who share a “nontraditional” educational background like me. I’ve met classmates who majored in Biology, Music, and even a few fellow Psychology majors. The most important thing you can do in law school is simply start. I know it is scary, but jumping in headfirst is the only way to begin. No matter what educational or career background you come from, that unique perspective is what makes each person’s law school journey their own. All your hard work leading up to law school and in law school will eventually pay off. You belong here and you deserve to be here!

Trusting yourself

I think the one of the hardest parts of law school is the unknown. The unknown of how a final exam will look, on whether or not you will get cold called, and even the environment when you enter the school. I truthfully believe one of the greatest ways to combat these feelings of uncertainty is by trusting in yourself.

When you trust in your capabilities and truly understand that you not only earned your right be in the classroom but you were meant to be here, you win half the battle. Sometimes as law students, there’s a thing called ‘imposter’ syndrome that goes around, and it is basically a feeling of doubting your skills and accomplishments. These doubts can carry emotions like, you are not meant to be here or this is no longer for me. I am telling you that these feelings can happen but trusting in your abilities will overcome this.

When it comes time for exams, cold calls, or walking in the first day, believe in everything that got you here. Trust in your critical reading skills and note taking so when that cold call comes, you are ready and alert. Trust in your outlines and how hard you prepared for finals so when the final comes you can say you have given it your best shot. Then, lastly, trust in your experiences, your prior learning, and everything that helped shape you that this environment and place was meant for you.

Law school is a mix of emotions at times, it really tests who you are and how you respond. It is a beautiful struggle that most of us are extremely grateful to experience. But, uncertainty will happen and when the time does come, make believing in yourself one thing that’s a certainty.

How to Make the Most of Office Hours

Going to office hours can feel intimidating at first because you may not know the “right” things to ask. You might even think it’s enough just to show up. While it’s always good to go, office hours are most effective when you come prepared, almost like class. You don’t have to worry about getting cold-called, but you should come ready to articulate your questions and concerns to your professors or ASFs.

Instead of walking in and saying, “I don’t understand Civil Procedure,” try something more specific, like:
“When drafting a complaint under Rule 8, how do I know when I’ve provided enough factual detail for it to be ‘plausible’ under Twombly and Iqbal, versus too conclusory?”

That may not be your exact question, but the idea is to communicate clearly what part of the material is tripping you up. Not only will this clear up confusion in the moment, but it will also help you build a critical lawyering skill: identifying issues precisely. A big part of what lawyers do is spot issues and analyze them in the gray areas. The same goes for briefing cases and writing exams. If you can learn to pinpoint exactly what you don’t understand in class, you’ve already fought half the battle.

Don’t go in empty-handed. Bring notes, questions, or even a rough outline you can reference. Having something concrete to show or explain helps guide the conversation. Remember, your professors aren’t just teaching statutes and doctrines, they’re also teaching you how to explain complex legal issues in simple, clear terms. That skill will serve you in every area of practice.

Most importantly, remember to breathe and keep an open mind. Office hours are about learning, not performing. If the workload ever feels overwhelming and you start to think you “know nothing,” pause, revisit your notes, and break the material down step by step. Law school is about practice, not perfection, and your professors and ASFs are there to help you along the way.

Evening Students: Embrace Opportunities

I began my educational journey later in life and had to balance a full-time job while pursuing education to begin a new career. While doing so, I took advantage of various opportunities to attend conferences that focused on my interests. At one conference I met a successful Certified Public Accountant (CPA) and after speaking about internships and getting involved with the profession, they said, “If you want to enter the profession, you need to get involved. If this is what you want, you need to prove it?” In the moment, the words felt harsh, but with the passage of time, how right he was. I needed to come to terms with the path I was seeking and knew it would require more involvement. Did involvement require the use of vacation time, evaluation of other commitments, and additional investment of my time? Yes, it did. However, getting involved has been the best investment ever, the return on investment continues to compound. So how to apply this life lesson to law school?  

            The reality of many evening students is we work full-time, have families, are involved in numerous activities, and are now trying to fit reading, briefing, attending class, reviewing class notes, outlining, and writing that first-year paper into our already busy, if not, overwhelmed, schedules. Here I am now encouraging evening students to embrace opportunities to get involved and recommending to get involved early in your time at law school, do not wait to you are a 2L or 3L. Four years sounds like a long time, but we all know how short of a period it truly is, law school will be over as fast as it began. I have noted, there is the passage of time in the real world and then there is the rate in which time passes while in law school. It is funny we use the same calendar, the same clock, and have the same number of hours in a week, yet time passes much more quickly.  

As an extended division student, attending in the evening, working full-time, coaching my son’s baseball team, spending time in the gym, involving myself with the Student Bar Association, attending various programs on campus, maintaining a social presence, and, last but not least, making time to play guitar, I am busy, may be an understatement. However, the words of that CPA continually flood the frontal cortex of my mind, “If this is what you want, get involved.” My reason for stating this is, despite how busy we are as evening students; we can and should carve out time to get involved in events that will support our journey towards entering the legal profession. Where did I start and where do I suggest you start? The answer, the calendar “Campus Events – Master Calendar.”   

            The Campus Events – Master Calendar is a great place to begin planning your involvement. If attending in the evening, classes will be held on Monday, Tuesday, and Thursday (as a 1L). Perusing the Master Calendar and identifying events that are held on the same nights as class allows for taking advantage of the fact you are already on campus. Most events begin at 5 pm, with a presentation on a particular topic. If you can attend an event prior to heading to class, you will benefit. You will be provided opportunities to network with fellow classmates and potentially with the speakers, prior to their presentation, if arriving early enough. Further, if living closer to campus, take advantage of an event that is perhaps on a Wednesday and stay for the reception. Receptions are the best time to expand your network and to speak with not only attorneys, but with your professors, fellow students, and the dean outside of the academic environment.  

As I write this, some key social events have already been added to the calendar, the Dean’s Picnic, September 20, 2025, and the Harrisburg Heroes Run, October 11, 2025. These events will certainly afford opportunity for networking, conversation, and some relaxation. Please note the calendar fills in as the year progresses, I personally found it beneficial to review it for updates at least every other week, there will be a plethora of events to choose from. I cannot encourage everyone enough to make plans to attend at least one professional event in addition to attending at least one social event per semester. Time is a precious commodity, and through proper planning we can manage our commitments and embrace available opportunities.

Tips for 1L Students

As a rising 2L Evening Division student, I wanted to share some of the helpful tips that I wish I knew at the beginning of my 1L year…

  1. Law school is a marathon, not a sprint. School should be your priority; however, burn out is very real. If you give 120% of yourself to school, and don’t make time for your mental and physical wellbeing, your law school education will suffer. It is important to find a balance! For some people, that means sticking to a very rigid calendar and scheduling time for classes/homework/studying, as well as some sort of time for family/friends/fun. For other people, that means taking one night “off” from school work most weeks. Find the balance that works best for you.
  2. Comparison is the thief of joy. There is no need for constant comparison with your law school classmates. What works for others might not work for you, and that is okay. You will likely have different study habits (alone vs. in a group, flashcards vs. re-writing rules, etc.). As long as you are doing your readings, keeping up with all assignments, and studying/outlining in a way that works best for you, you will do great!
  3. Your classmates are your friends and future colleagues. Bond with them and be kind to one another! These are the people who rant to you, laugh with you, cry on your shoulder, study with you, celebrate with you, and ultimately help you through this journey. Nobody truly understands the struggle of law school more than your classmates, so lean on them, and don’t burn any bridges!
  4. Have fun! Law school is what you make it. Join a new group, become a student member of a local Bar Association, attend networking events, enjoy social events, and take the opportunities that come your way! You will meet amazing people, including attorneys who you might turn to for advice, refer a client to, or see in a job interview one day.

Summer Growth: My Legal Internship Experience at a General Practice Law Firm

As a rising 2L at Widener Commonwealth Law School, I’m spending my summer diving headfirst into practical legal experience, and I couldn’t be more excited about what I’ve already learned. I recently started an internship with DWGM Law Firm, a general practice located near my hometown. Being back in a familiar community while applying what I’ve learned in the classroom has been both rewarding and eye-opening.

DWGM Law handles a wide range of legal matters, which has given me the chance to explore various areas of the law. From the start, I was entrusted with meaningful work that has already sharpened my skills in ways that I know will benefit me throughout my legal career.

Admittedly, the experience can be intimidating. Working alongside attorneys who have graduated from law school, passed the bar, and many of them have been practicing for decades can be overwhelming at times. Impostor syndrome can easily creep in, especially when I compare my limited experience to the seasoned professionals around me. But I remind myself that it’s completely normal to feel this way. The only way to grow is to trust in what I’ve learned so far, do my best, and stay open to every new learning opportunity that comes my way.

One of the biggest areas of growth for me has been in legal research. Every memo I draft pushes me to dig deeper, think critically, and communicate more clearly. I’ve written numerous legal memos addressing a variety of legal questions, and each one has taught me how to analyze the law more effectively and tailor my findings to a practical legal setting. I’ve even referenced some cases that I studied during my 1L year while conducting research, which has made me appreciate just how relevant and valuable that foundational coursework has been.

In particular, my Legal Methods class has been incredibly important in navigating this internship. That course gave me a strong foundation in legal writing and citation, skills I use every day in the memos I submit to the attorneys at the firm. We even completed a library research project in that class, which mirrors the kind of in-depth legal research I now conduct regularly at the firm. It’s been empowering to see how directly my first-year education translates to real-world legal work.

In addition to research, I’ve had the opportunity to draft petitions and even prepare power of attorney documents—experiences that have exposed me to the kind of real-world legal writing and client considerations that can’t be fully captured in casebooks. These hands-on assignments have made this internship an incredibly valuable learning experience.

I’m grateful to the attorneys and staff at DWGM Law Firm for welcoming me and allowing me to take on meaningful work so early in my legal journey. And I appreciate all the valuable education my professors have taught me thus far, and just how useful it can be. I’m excited to keep learning, growing, and contributing throughout the rest of the summer.

My Top 10 Tips for Surviving and Thriving in Law School

Tip #3 When briefing cases try to summarize the facts into your own words. If you get cold called the professor will not just want you to read the facts of the case straight to them. They want to make sure you gave it your best shot at understanding the case. So, do your best to summarize the facts of the case. This helped me understand what was going on in the case and it will probably help your understanding as well. But if the professor says to do something else then make sure to do what they say.

Tip #4 Remember that no matter what it looks like none of the students around you know what they are doing so it is ok to not know what your are doing. No matter what class you take everyone in that class is taking it for the first time. So no one knows what is happening. Everyone is learning new information at the same time.

Tip #5 Ask questions in class if you are confused because if you are confused then other people are probably confused too. When I started law school I would not ask question becasue I was scared to ask a dumb question. But I realized my questions were not dumb, I was just confused. But if you are sitting in class and really do not want to ask the question in front of everyone or really think no one else has that question then write the question down and ask the professor after class. Just make sure to ask your questions.

Tip #6 Try to outline after each section of material. Once a professor moves onto a new topic then outline the material. This is something I did in my second semester and it helped me feel less overwhelmed when it came to finals. Then once you outline take it to the professor to make sure you did not miss anything. You could also meet with some friends to compare outlines.

Tip #7 Try to start studying as soon as possible. So, after you outline a section try to start memorizing that information. This also helped me feel less overwhelmed when it came to finals.

Tip #8 Go to the professors office and ask questions. They understand this is hard and will not give you a hard time for asking questions. It is there job to help you and they want to make sure you understand. Even if it is one question or ten, go ask your professor sooner then later.

Tip #9 Take an hour or two at the end of the week to write down when next weeks assignments are due. Then take those assignments and try to plan out when you will do those assignments. This helped me keep track of everything and helped me make sure I got everything done.

The last tip I have for you is to breathe becasue this will be very very very hard. Give yourself grace to mess up or not understand.

Finals Are Coming: Study Tips From a Fellow Law Student Who’s Been There

With finals creeping up faster than we’d like to admit, I wanted to share a few study strategies that have really helped me (and others I know) get through this high-stress season. Law school exams are challenging—they test how well you can think, not just how much you’ve memorized. But the good news? With a solid plan, you can crush them.

Here’s how I’m tackling finals this semester—and how you can, too.


1. Start Early (No, Really—Do It)

I know everyone says to start early, but it truly makes a huge difference. The material builds up quickly, and cramming doesn’t work when your exam is an issue-spotting essay.

➢ My approach: I start outlining and reviewing about three weeks before finals. I break each course into sections and assign specific days to review and practice. And yes—I actually schedule in breaks and “off” days to avoid burnout.


2. Active Learning > Passive Reading

Just reading case briefs or flipping through flashcards won’t cut it. Law exams are all about application.

➢ What works:

  • Outlining: Making my own outlines helps me connect the dots between rules, cases, and policy.
  • Hypos and past exams: I try to do at least one hypothetical per topic. It’s the best way to practice thinking like a lawyer under pressure.
  • Study groups (if you like them): Teaching a concept out loud to someone else is a great way to realize what you don’t fully understand yet.

3. Use Commercial Outlines—But Don’t Depend on Them

Barbri, Quimbee, Themis—they’re great for tricky concepts or as a sanity check. But they’re not a substitute for understanding how your professor teaches and tests the material.

➢ Tip: Use commercial outlines as a backup. Your own outlines (and your class notes!) should be the main event. And if your professor has shared past exams or sample answers—use them!


4. Know the Format Before You Study

If your exam is multiple-choice, your prep should look different than if it’s all essays. Don’t make the mistake of preparing the wrong way.

➢ What I do: I try to mimic the format of the exam during practice. If it’s timed essays, I actually time myself and write full answers. If it’s MCQs, I drill with practice questions and focus on spotting traps.


5. Don’t Be Afraid to Ask for Help

Law school resources exist for a reason—take advantage of them!

➢ Go to ASF/faculty office hours, attend review sessions, and dig into past exams. Professors want you to succeed, and sometimes a quick 15-minute chat can clear up something you’ve been stuck on.


6. Take Care of Yourself

It’s tempting to pull all-nighters and live on coffee during finals. But honestly, that is a fast track to burnout. Your brain needs rest to function well.

➢ My self-care checklist:

  • Sleep: 7–8 hours (yes, even during finals).
  • Move: I take a walk after long study sessions—it really helps me reset.
  • Eat real meals: I try not to skip meals, especially on exam days. Fueling your brain matters.

7. Confidence Is Half the Battle

Finals are intense, but so are you! Remind yourself how far you’ve come this semester. Trust the work you’ve put in thus far.

➢ My mindset trick: When I start spiraling, I breathe, reset, and remind myself: I know this stuff. I’ve prepared. I’ve got this.


You’ve Got This!

Finals aren’t easy, but they’re doable. Start early, study with intention, and take care of yourself. You’re capable, prepared, and stronger than you think.

Wishing you a smooth finals season and some well-earned rest on the other side!

Make changes as you go to find what works best for you!

Endeavoring into law school can be completely overwhelming as it often requires a lifestyle change. Although this often includes having less free time to do the things we ordinarily would like to do and focusing more on the path in front of you, learning to appropriately manage the workload along with out-of-school challenges is something that won’t come naturally to most people. However, as I have learned from my three years here, what is most important is to find what works best for you and not base how you structure your time in law school off of what someone else does. 

Everyone has different ways of learning and managing their time, and from my experience, even an individual’s strategies can change drastically from semester to semester. This can include changing where, how, or who you study with and that is perfectly okay as long as you are figuring it out as you go. 

On a broader note than simply changing your study habits, implementing an entire lifestyle change while in law school may be required for you. An example of this stems from a personal anecdote of mine; before attending law school I was working full time as a paralegal, which I fully intended to continue doing while going through law school because I lived on my own and fully supported myself. Before law school, the idea of quitting my job, going to school full-time and taking loans to cover my living expenses seemed like the wrong personal choice for me. 

I initiated my law school path at Widener Commonwealth in the extended (night-time/part-time) division and continued to work full-time as a paralegal during the day. As I quickly found out for myself at the end of the first semester, this was not going to work for me. The next semester, I let my job know I needed to focus on law school, switched into the regular (full-time/day-time) division, and took loans to cover my expenses. This was a huge lifestyle change that I went through, but it was what worked best for me and now I am flourishing in law school. 

All of this to say, if something isn’t working for you, it’s totally acceptable to make changes as you go! When people say it’s a marathon and not a sprint they really mean it, so take it one day at a time and don’t feel bad about changing things as you go!